My husband
is absolutely amazing. Over the weekend, we celebrated our 11th
anniversary – I can’t believe it’s been 11 years with this man. He is my life.
And he knows me so well. He got me a cyclist; someone who could physically fight
back, is kind of pretentious, and is easy to capture when you’re bored with
them. You just run them over.
We spent hours
tearing his body apart – muscle is very difficult to cut through. In the end,
we cut his body into five pieces, drive them out to our favourite burial
ground, and then had sex on the car. Like a bunch of gross teenagers. It was
very romantic. Afterwards, we went to a late night showing of Captain Marvel
and fell asleep. We are getting old; and as amazing as Brie Larson was, an 11pm
start is a little too late for me to sit in a dark room.
All in all,
it was a really nice anniversary. I liked spending time with James just doing
what we love.
I never
thought I’d have to make time for my husband, I always thought it would come naturally.
Just being together. Couples who have to schedule date night are spiraling towards
unhappiness. But maybe it’s just a necessary reminder to check in with each
other. That you’re not in this alone. Being able to talk to James about what’s
been going on took a giant weight off my shoulders. I’ve missed spending time
with him. I’ve missed how he makes me feel.
When we
first got married, we were inseparable. Shared everything – unknown daughters
born of previous one-night-stands aside. And we haven’t stopped doing that. Our
alone time isn’t as frequent as it once was. I don’t know what that means. Maybe
it just means that I have to stop waiting for our time to come naturally or some
special event to happen. Maybe I should schedule date night. Be those losers
who have to make time to check in with each other.
And maybe
that means we’re on a downward spiral to unhappiness. But I would rather put
some effort into our relationship than risk losing it.
I’ve
already talked to him about this and he’s on the same page so, our
communication skills are still strong. We just have to make sure they stay that
way.
As always,
dear readers,
Stay Safe
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